Juan Dominguez feared for his child Kai entering a deep depression, angry at the world, before a doctor finally provided a diagnosis of gender dysphoria. The father knew little about transgender identity at the time, but saw an immediate turnaround once Kai was treated.
But as Florida implemented new laws restricting medical professionals from providing gender-affirming care to minors, that doctor can no longer provide care, nor can any other in the state.
“The doctor that helped us identify Kai’s condition can no longer see us. We are not allowed to be open with other doctors because they won’t accept our child in their clinics,” Domingue said. “Doctors spend years studying the research. They know their patients. Medical decisions belong with families and doctors, not politicians.”
Dominguez was one of several parents to speak Wednesday at an Equality Florida press conference in Tallahassee, condemning a new round of laws aimed at LGBTQ Floridians. Parents of transgender children said their children have been humiliated in school, denied care and silenced repeatedly for any objection to what they say are draconian laws.
Equality Florida Executive Director Stratton Pollitzer said this follows a trend of attacks, ones that too often originate from Gov. Ron DeSantis’ Office.
“Let’s understand why DeSantis and this small band of his cronies are so obsessed with attacking the LGBTQ community,” Pollitzer said.
“These bills are smoke bombs meant to distract Floridians from the complete failure of Ron DeSantis and his allies to address the real crises Floridians are facing: lack of affordability, a housing emergency, and skyrocketing insurance costs.”
The press conference called out legislation, including one dubbed by critics as the “Don’t Say Gay or Trans at Work” bill threatening funding from organizations holding LGBTQ sensitivity training. Activists also took the state to task for many bills passed in prior years, most in a stretch before DeSantis’ ultimately failed run for President.
Those included bans on transgender students in women’s sports, restrictions on medical care being provided to minors and coverage to adults, and the state’s notorious “Parental Rights in Education” law barring any instruction on gender identity or sexual orientation through high school, a prohibition that includes outlawing the use of preferred pronouns or nicknames by school faculty and staff.
Luisa Montoya, President of PFLAG Broward, said she was upset she could not even register her trans son in school with his preferred name.
“Because of this, my child was repeatedly called by his birth name in front of other students. Sometimes it happened in the classroom, sometimes in the hallway. And once, it even happened over the school megaphone,” Montoya said.
“I will never forget the look on my child’s face. That moment reminded me why I fight. Because school should be a place of learning and safety — not fear or humiliation.”
Jennifer Solomon, head of Equality Florida’s Parenting with Pride program, stressed that LGBTQ families deserve representation in Tallahassee. And she said parents are one group that won’t be silenced.
“Look around. These parents are not here as strangers. They are your neighbors, your colleagues, your friends. Every one of them has a child they cherish and a story they want to be heard,” Solomon said.
“This fight is not abstract. It is deeply personal. I live it every day — in every choice I make, in every conversation I have about the future of Florida, and in every moment I stand beside families who are facing these threats with courage and love.”
Pollitzer said he was heartened in recent Legislative Sessions when, despite anti-LGBTQ legislation being filed and occasionally heard in committee, few bills have passed.
“Last year we saw a growing number of legislators refuse to waste more time on these awful bills and with people power we defeated all of them,” he said.
“We hope that with real challenges facing everyday Floridians lawmakers will again refuse to prioritize DeSantis’s agenda of more censorship, surveillance, and government control. But hope does not mean silence. And it does not mean standing down.”